
I may be biased, but the men of this world do have it easy in more ways than one when it comes to getting fit and staying that way. They don’t go through the numerous physical changes that women go through in a lifetime, changes that make their weight fall and rise like a roller coaster ride. There’s puberty and the hormonal changes it brings along with the weight gain; no sooner have you regained your figure than you get married and pregnant. While a baby is a bundle of joy, pregnancy weight issues are certainly not.
The pregnancy cycle repeats depending on the number of children you desire, and then just when you think your days of playing weight yo-yo are done, menopause hits with its associated problems. And if you’re unlucky enough to be beset by thyroid and uterus-related problems, well, let me just reiterate here that men do have it easy in more ways than one.
In spite of the hardships associated with all the above aspects, women are still stoic enough to go through them without too much fuss. But if there’s one thing that does torment and taunt the fairer sex like nothing else, it’s infertility and its related side effects. I’ve seen a friend go through the gamut of treatments there is, for 10 long years before she finally called it quits. From artificial insemination to IVF to ICSI, she’s been injected with more than her share of fertility drugs and hormones in an attempt to conceive.
While men have to do nothing more than get friendly with a cup, women in fertility treatments are put through both physical and mental agony. The endless injections and the seemingly endless wait for the blood test results to come in, followed by the disappointment and depression, take a toll on your general health and your psyche. The worst aspect is that your weight balloons up due to all the hormone supplements you’re given, the enforced period of physical inactivity, and the mental stress you go through.
It’s ironic in a way – obesity has been cited as a cause for infertility, but for women who go through one IVF cycle and face failure, getting back into shape before the next one is a nightmare. The motivation to lose weight comes from the fact that you want a baby so badly. But when you go through three successive failed cycles, you find it extremely hard to summon up the enthusiasm needed to keep going with your diet and exercise routine. You keep thinking of the end of the procedure when you’re going to be met with an “I’m sorry, but we could try again” look from your doctor.
All’s well that end’s well though - I’m happy to say that my friend did find a solution to end all of her problems with one stroke – adoption. This post was contributed by Heather Johnson, who writes on the subject of Nursing Schools. She invites your feedback at heatherjohnson2323@gmail.com.
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